chore 📦: Update Fail2ban settings and add/restart/reload tasks

This commit updates the Fail2ban configuration to reduce bantime and findtime, and adds/fixes restart/reload tasks in handlers/main.yml. These changes aim to improve security and manageability of the fail2ban service.

handlers/main.yml

@@ -32,10 +32,18 @@
   ansible.builtin.systemd:
     daemon_reload: true
 
-- name: Restart fail2ban
+- name: Reload fail2ban
   ansible.builtin.systemd:
     name: fail2ban
     state: reloaded
+    enabled: true
+
+- name: Restart fail2ban
+  ansible.builtin.systemd:
+    name: fail2ban
+    state: restarted
+    enabled: true
+
 
 - name: Reload pve firewall
   ansible.builtin.command: pve-firewall reload